As her new film Maa approaches its theatrical release on June 27, 2025, Bollywood icon Kajol is not just focusing on cinematic promotions. She’s also addressing a more personal and pressing issue — how her 22-year-old daughter, Nysa Devgn, has been navigating the turbulent waters of social media criticism. In a candid conversation, Kajol revealed the lessons she imparts to her daughter to shield her from the impact of trolling.
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The Scope of Online Trolling
Nysa, often seen at Mumbai’s party circuit and in viral videos alongside fellow internet personalities, hasn’t escaped the spotlight — or the flak that comes with it. Social media has, at times, turned critical, with nonconstructive comments targeting everything from her behavior to her personal style. In light of this, Kajol has taken a firm stand, revealing how she encourages her daughter to build resilience.
“It’s Just 0.1%” — A Weapon Against Negativity
Kajol shared that she frequently reminds Nysa: “It’s just 1% or 0.1% of people who are talking like that. I don’t even know if they are even real, to be honest. You don’t know how much of it is real.” The emphasis on perspective — distinguishing between fleeting comments and genuine opinion — is central to her approach.
This reminder helps Nysa critically evaluate the authenticity and relevance of every comment, promoting emotional distance from negativity.
Focus on Love, Not the Noise
Kajol elaborated that with thousands of messages and posts flooding in daily, it’s essential to concentrate on the abundance of positive feedback and affection. “If you have a thousand comments, you will have 999 saying ‘She is amazing’, ‘She is beautiful’. So much love they get, so many blessings they get. Concentrate on that and don’t think too much about all these people. That’s all you can do”.
This advice emphasizes selective attention — teaching Nysa to filter constructive from destructive, helping her retain self-confidence amidst public backlash.
A Protective, Yet Calmer, Mother
Kajol revealed that while she once described herself as the “Eela” — referencing her controlling role in Helicopter Eela — she has since softened. In private, she remains protective and fiercely sarcastic: “Don’t come in front of my car, otherwise I’ll drive over you.” But publicly, she strives to empower her children, letting them grow into confident adults.
She clarified, “I used to be an Eela… but not anymore; I am much calmer and cooler. But yes, I am protective.” This balance highlights a steady evolution in her parenting — from strict oversight to supportive guidance.
Raising a Daughter in India’s Contrasts
In another candid chat, Kajol admitted that she often has to remind Nysa: “This is India.” Nysa, who spent formative years studying in Switzerland, must navigate cultural expectations around behavior and attire — restrictions her son Yug, aged 14, does not face. She noted, “He just puts on a T-shirt and shorts, and walks out… There’s no second thought”.
Kajol’s reality check for Nysa — “When in Rome, live like the Romans” — reflects a practical approach to integrating into Indian society while balancing global exposure.
Nysa’s Career: To Be or Not to Be in Films
While Kajol continues to guide Nysa through social and emotional challenges, she confirmed that Nysa has no aspirations to join the film industry. Kajol dismissed speculation, reiterating that her daughter “has made up her mind” against pursuing acting. Instead, Nysa seems more attuned to living beyond the film families’ orbit.
Psychological Fortitude as a Family Value
Kajol’s approach highlights a broader philosophy: developing psychological resilience. In an era where online comments can spiral into toxic threads, she is teaching Nysa — and indirectly many young people — to focus on genuine feedback, trust their emotional boundaries, and understand that much of social media criticism is faceless noise.
Her strong stance reminds trolls: celebrities’ children deserve privacy and protection too. Both Kajol and her husband Ajay Devgn have publicly opposed otherwise.
Preparing for ‘Maa’
Kajol’s upcoming film Maa, directed by Vishal Furia and co-produced by Ajay Devgn and Jyoti Deshpande, echoes her protective instincts. The psychological horror-thriller dramatizes a mother’s fierce love and her fight to protect her daughter from evil forces. Kajol’s real-life battle for Nysa’s mental health mirrors her on-screen quest. With co–stars including Ronit Roy and Indraneil Sengupta, the film releases June 27.
Final Word
Kajol’s early motherly warning to social media trolls — “Don’t come in front of my car” — is both lighthearted and serious. Behind her humor lies a determined message: her daughter, like any young person, is entitled to dignity, privacy, and emotional well-being in a world saturated with online scrutiny.
Her advice to Nysa — “Focus on the good, stay true, adapt, and don’t let faceless negativity define you” — offers valuable lessons not just for star kids, but for families everywhere facing the challenges of the digital age.
By – Sonali